Happy Birthday, Honey!

Look, 40 isn't easy.  I know.  I'm almost 6 months older, remember?  You do remember, of course you do, you like to remind me that you are younger, if only by a few months.  But now we are both 40 years old.  It does take some time to get used to, I'll give you that.  So maybe you can't stay up as late, or drink as much, or ride your bike as far, but that's not all that important, really.

What matters is who you've become:  A wonderful father, a supportive husband, an accomplished professional.  I like how you've softened, not physically (although I know you think this is true, I don't agree) but in your demeanor.  It isn't all about rushing and stressing, getting something done.  You take the time to play with the kids, listen to my stories, share our lives.

It is freeing, really, being 40.  A true grown-up.  Perhaps not hip, but sophisticated, wise, comfortable.  You keep getting better, baby.  And here's another bit of advice:

Just remember, no matter how old you are, I'll always be older.

Love,

Your old lady

Comments

[Laura]

Happy B-day Matt! Welcome to the club. I'm also finding that I can't see/read as well as I used to. Whateva...........

[Matthew]

Thanks Honey! As you know and are probably sick of hearing me complain about I am having a bit of trouble embracing the big "40" as well as you did. I wish I felt the way you do but about the only things I am sure of as I turn the corner on 40 are that I love you our family, and the life we have created together. And that makes 40 a lot easier today than I thought it would ever be.

[inthefastlane]

Very sweet! I still have a few more, but the Mr. will get there first and I am sure I will remind him often.

[floating in space]

Happy birthday to Matt!

[Niksmom]

LOL, this is GREAT! I could almost have written this to my husband (except I'm three years older!).

Happy Birthday!

[flutter]

this is so cute, and you are a totally hot 40 year old!